I’ve spent years unravelling the lies she has told getting each count overturned in Appeals courts and having them wiped from my record in Criminal Court.

But was a real <a href="“>nightmare. I was arrested, charged, convicted and then jailed with no evidence or previous charges by a woman I barely dated soon after she began stalking me. I was convicted of stalking her even though there were literally no prior arrests or evidence to support this.

I have spent years unravelling the lies she has told getting each count overturned in Appeals courts and having them wiped from my record in Criminal Court.

It’s been a nightmare.

The woman is a paranoid schitzophrenic with no sense of the damage she has done to my life and probably never will.

My advice to anyone, especially men, who are accused of these charges:
A) Document every strange for abberant incident concerning your stalker. Videotape her car in front of your building for hours. Videotape her staning in your block for weeks with no clear reason for being there. Save all the weird email she sends you.
“>nightmare. The woman is a paranoid schitzophrenic with no sense of the damage she has done to my life and probably never will.

My advice to anyone, especially men, who are accused of these charges:
A) Document every strange for abberant incident concerning your stalker. Videotape her car in front of your building for hours. Videotape her standing in your block staring at your building for weeks with no clear reason for being there. Save all the weird email and phone calls she directs at you.
B) Find corraborating witnesses. Find people that were present when you were far away or with your supposed victim to say that you never commited any crime. I was unfortunante. All the people present when this woman and I were together refused to testify for either one of us – save for one. A man who just pointed his finger at me in court and said: “there he is…” He didn’t even say that I commited any crime at all. He just said “there he is….”
C) Fight the charges as hard as you can. I foolishly accepted a plea to avoid being charged with 2 Felonies and I regret it everyday. I ended up having to do 11 months in jail and have been fighting the charges, with some success in being exonerated, for the better part of four years.

I’m struggling with not falling into my own version of paranoia with women. After all these charges and incompetence it’s too easy for me to believe that women live to seen as victims – even if they have to lie for years to “prove” it.